
Is your health and fitness journey driven by guilt, fear and shame?
Do you find yourself swinging between "all in" health anD fitness campaigns and "all out" avoidance of it altogether?
are you frustrated that you can'T Seem to make anything stick and are looking for support to make lasting, positive change?
Would you benefit from being part of a like-minded group, all pursuing a similar journey?
What is the community?
My Fit for Life Community is a safe, supportive and non-judgemental online group space for you to build a healthy, lasting relationship with health and fitness, activity and exercise.
It's led by me, Han, a Sport & Exercise Psychologist (in training) and built on key principles of exercise psychology and behaviour change science.
what's the purpose?
In the community, we focus on supporting people out of relationships with exercise, food, the body, health and fitness that are driven by fear, pressure, guilt and shame, and into ones that are instead driven by self-trust, choice, autonomy and flexibility.
Removing the guilt and shame and supporting people to find their FREEDOM with health and fitness.
Because being invested in our physical health shouldn't have to be at the expense of our mental health, overall wellbeing, and quality of life.
Using psychology, the community supports you to build an individual approach to health and fitness that supports overall, holistic health and works for YOU, in the context of YOUR REALITY.
No more guilt. No more shame. No more self-attack.
how does it work?
We build guilt and shame-free approaches to health and fitness using the Aligned Anti-Should Framework, my evidence-informed approach to health and fitness that trades guilt, shame and "I should's" for choice, autonomy, flexibility, and alignment with real life.
It helps people build an approach to movement, rest and nourishment that actually aligns with their values, priorities, and wider life circumstances, rather than getting stuck in a "shoulds cycle" of unsustainable, all-or-nothing plans.
In practice, it combines six core principles (including movement driven by choice, health is not a moral scorecard, and flexibility as consistency) with a six-pillar process: clarifying why health matters to you, understanding your real barriers, finding activities that genuinely work for you, setting aligned goals, learning how to sustain them, and responding to setbacks with self-compassion instead of shame.
The result is a move away from short lived, perfection-chasing, urgency and intensity based approaches, to calm, consistent action you can live with, and be content with, long-term.
is it the right space for me?
With monthly learning workshops and monthly themes all based around making positive, healthy and LASTING exercise change that works for YOU, the community is a space where you will be joined by like-minded people, all navigating their own activity and exercise journeys.
There's space to learn more about activity and exercise, and your individual relationship with it...
And there's space to share your frustrations, work through your challenges, celebrate your wins, ask questions, and discuss anything else you'd like to on your exercise journey - all with the support of a like-minded bunch of people, and led by Han.
We're a community with a strong rebel ethos - people who are done beating themselves up in the name of "health" and are ready to build health and fitness on their terms instead.
It's a space for those who are tired of fear-inducing, shame-based, one-size-fits all fitness industry narratives that make you and your body feel like the problem.
We don't conform to the rigid rules presented in those narratives - we do things OUR way, as a group of individuals. Experimenting, adapting and staying compassionate to ourselves while making real, sustainable changes.
We're not rebelling for the sake of rebelling - we're rebelling against fear, shame and perfection - so you can build health that actually fits in and alongside your real life - not at the expense of it! Supporting you to become fit FOR LIFE!

You often feel guilty or ashamed when your health and fitness endeavours don't go to plan.
You constantly feel like you are never doing enough and always chasing more with health and fitness.
Your sense of self-worth is defined by how well you are doing with health and fitness - how lean you are, how strong you are, how disciplined you are etc.
You're tired of feeling rubbish about yourself when it comes to your health and fitness
You struggle to be active regularly and sustainably
You feel stuck with activity and exercise
You feel overwhelmed or confused about what you 'should' or 'shouldn't' be doing
You would describe your current relationship with exercise as a negative one
You want to break the cycle you're in and make meaningful, lasting change with activity and exercise
You are looking to develop a healthier relationship with activity and exercise
You are keen to explore and build a healthy relationship with health and fitness that is made for YOU and would work for YOU - within and alongside the rest of your real life, not at the expense of it!
Access to a private Facebook group with all other community members - a dedicated space for YOU. Come in as you are: share your frustrations, celebrate your wins, ask questions, and be reminded you're not doing this alone. A place to be seen, supported and cheered on by like-minded people, all on a similar journey.
1 x live learning workshop per month via Zoom, diving deep into a different health and fitness topic through the lens of exercise psychology. Each session breaks down one monthly theme with clear, practical, actionable steps that you can start to implement straight away - plus access to the recordings in our online learning portal for as long as you're a member.
1 x social Zoom call per month with me (Han) and other community members. Bring a cuppa, be yourself, have a chat, connect - share your experiences, ask questions, or simply listen! A relaxed space to build genuine connections with people on the same anti-should journey, engaging as much or as little as feels right for you.
In the private Facebook group, I'll post regularly - thoughtfully designed prompts to spark discussion, personal reflection or immediate action around that month's theme. Each one gives you either something to implement, something to connect over or something to sit with - all grounded in the Aligned Anti-Should Approach.
Through the online learning area, you'll have unlimited access to all live session recordings for as long as you're a member, plus a growing library of guided worksheets, workbooks and self-paced resources - designed to meet you exactly where you're at on your health and fitness journey, so you can work through them at your own pace.
Everything in the left hand column that forms the community tier is also included in the community 'plus' tier.
As well as access to the Facebook group, this tier also includes a small WhatsApp group chat where I (Han) am actively present, offering regular check ins and on-the-spot support. It's ideal if you want something a bit more intensive and coach/psychologist-led, without going fully 1:1. Spaces are intentionally limited so support is not diluted, and you actually feel seen, heard and supported.
An extra monthly call on top of the two included in the Community tier. This session is dedicated time for members to bring a specific challenge, or something they're working on, and receive focused support, reflections and guidance from me and the group. How long each person gets will depend on how many attend, but spaces in this tier are intentionally limited so the support stays meaningful and never feels diluted.
Everything in the Community & Community+ tiers is also included in this tier.
As well as everything included in the Community+ tier, in the Community+ 1:1 gives you direct access to me (Han), as your coach and psychologist, with 1 x 60 minute online coaching call each month. This is your focused, individual time to bring everything you're learning in the community together into a coherent, realistic plan for your life, work through limiting beliefs and "shoulds" that keep you stuck, and get tailored support so you can move forwards with more clarity, confidence and momentum, faster than you would alone.
Han is a Sport & Exercise Psychologist in Training (SEPiT) with the Chartered Association of Sport and Exercise Sciences (CASES), a Chartered Psychologist with the British Psychological Society (BPS) and qualified personal trainer, with a PhD in Sport and Exercise Psychology from Loughborough University.
Han runs Newman Sport Psychology alongside their work in applied sport and performance psychology (working across elite sport and performance contexts) and their academic teaching and research. They have been Programme Leader for the MSc in Sport and Exercise Psychology at Middlesex University, and their research specialises in the psychology of sport, exercise, and physical activity participation and engagement.
Han helps people to improve their relationship with exercise so that they can make positive change to their health and fitness in a way that aligns with their wider life, values and priorities. Han works with people who struggle to make exercise and physical activity a regular part of their life, and/or those who feel that their current relationship with exercise is having a negative impact on their wellbeing.
Han previously competed in strength sport events, but now enjoys lifting heavy things more casually, amongst other forms of activity that they enjoy! Away from work, Han can often be found watching sport, enjoying a beer in a (preferably sunny) location by the water, or having a dance!

Access to private facebook group
1 x Live learning workshop per month with subsequent access to recording
regular FB group posts from Han to spark discussion & reflection around the month's theme
1 x SOCIAL call per month - bring a cuppa & have a chat!
Online learning portal - all workshop recordings and a library of other self-paced resources
Community+
Everything included in the fit foR life community
additional smaller group support with more regular, structured check ins with han (VIA WHATSAPP GROUP)
additional monthly group coaching call - members share a challenge or something they are working on & han and the group provide support, advice and guidance
Everything included in the fit foR life community
additional 1:1 coaching - 1 x 60 minute individual psychology support session per month with han
"I don't think I would have tried anything new if it weren't for this group. I'd probably still be stuck on yoga/gym/running as the most effective because they're "true" exercise and ignoring my desire for adventure!... I've proved to myself that starting out can actually be fun even if I'm not "good" at something, and that I can have a varied set of options with more choice and less pressure."
Testimonial
2025 Fit for Life Community Member
"I really can honestly say if I hadn't got your workbook and been part of this group I'd still be procrastinating about doing any activity at all and going nowhere fast! This really has been such a valuable experience to have been part of."
Testimonial
Member of Han's previous 'March Motivation Kickstarter' support group (which formed the founding basis for the Community)
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